Jun 2, 2015

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Principle IV ~ Raise Addictions to Preferences & Experience Abundance

Principle IV ~ Raise Addictions to Preferences & Experience Abundance

Prayer-for-Peace-copy-ippRAISE ADDICTIONS TO PREFERENCES & EXPERIENCE ABUNDANCE*
by Sasha Lessin, Ph.D.

1) Love is eternal, involvement, negotiable. Love your lovers forever, celebrate what you’ve shared. Wish them well and good-loving with whomever they connect, whether or not they keep connecting with you at the level and with the quality you want. You and they blessed each other, facilitated each other’s progress and development in life’s learning. Shower lovers past with appreciations and put your efforts into your currently active loves.

2) Uplevel addictive involvement–that which makes you suffer if you lack the contact you desire–to preference. If your attachment to a certain form of contact (regular alone time with a certain lover) hurts when you do not get it, transform that addictive demand (she must spend a certain amount and quality of 1×1 time with me) to a preference (I’m ok, in fact, quite happy, whether she does or does not spend time with me). Just keep telling your truth without blame or judgment to all concerned and enjoy what you’ve got, don’t sweat what you’ve not.

30ro6rq3) Reprogram the subself within you that perseveres in addictive behavior; find out when it came into your life, how it served you then, what it has done throughout the years to protect your vulnerability and what its interest is in holding on to the current diminishing relationship. Seriously consider other, more ecologically homoeostatic means of meeting the needs of this persevering subself’s addictive demands.

3) Never regard yourself as a second-class human, who must always defer to others’ needs. You’re sovereign; you must make yourself happy. Empathize with your own emotions, analyze your needs, make loving requests of those who care about you, requests that, if lovingly met, meet your needs. As much as possible, meet your own needs and experience the joy that attracts others to you.

*Based on Keyes, K.,1979,  A Conscious Person’s Guide to Relationships,Living Love.

CORE PRINCIPLES
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PRACTICE ALL-CHAKRA TANTRA & EXPERIENCE THE LOVE DIVINE THAT INFUSES ALL

CONNECT TANTRICALLY WITH BELOVEDS TO TRANSCEND SEPARATE SELF-SENSES AND MERGE WITH HIGHER REALMS OF CONSCIOUSNESS

REGRESS,  EXPRESS & REPROGRAM TO DISTINGUISH LOVERS FROM DADS AND MOTHERS

RAISE ADDICTIONS TO PREFERENCES & EXPERIENCE ABUNDANCE

CENTER & EMBRACE OPPOSITES WITHIN US & BETWEEN US AND OUR BELOVEDS

RESCRIPT PASTLIFE PROGRAMS AND ARCHETYPAL DRAMAS AND BECOME PRESENT

CREATE & SUSTAIN RELATIONSHIPS & COMMUNITY THAT HONOR INDIVIDUAL CHOICES OF CONSCIENCE

UPLEVEL RELATIONSHIPS WITH TRUTH, AUTHENTICITY AND COMPASSION

CELEBRATE OUR BODIES

HONOR ALL CONSCIOUSNESSES; MAKE AMENDS TO THE POOR, HOMELESS, WOMEN, HANDICAPPED & MINORITIES & SHARE GIFTS

SEEK COMPASSIONATE PEACE WITH OBSERVATION, EMOTIONAL EXPRESSION, EMPATHY, NEEDS SHARING AND REQUESTS

HONOR THE EARTH, HER CREATURES AND FEATURES

         
Tantra Theosophy has no connection to the theosophy system of Rudolph Steiner.  Theosophy‘s a generic term for the  experience of divine enlightenment.
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